Let it All Go, Let it Out NOW.

So I did say that I was working on combining all of my words, thoughts and wisdom in this one place - this is an oldie, but goodie for anyone that is feeling less than they are... This one goes in the "blurb" category.  Just some sound words that came to mind after a series of long discussions with several women in my life that happen to be going through some rough waters.  They are all rough in different flavors, however, I believe these words still sum up all the advice that I so long winded-ly gave.  These words go for anyone.  I tend to have a bent towards seeing the other side, having a very open minded understanding of the world and people - which can be maddening to most, sometimes even to me.  For instance, despite the initial feeling of being angry when a friend, family member, or dating interest does not return the same affection that I may give - instead of continuing to allow myself to feel negative emotions towards this person, I tend to remind myself of this... A person cannot give what they do not have to give.  Life is 20% what things ARE and then 80% how YOU choose to look at things.

I know, I know - it's so hard to take the emotion out of things and only leave the logical sides.  But really, think about it... If you encounter a person who is not giving you what you may want or expect or even what you give to them, maybe - JUST MAYBE, they don't have that thing you want.  Maybe they don't own that thing, in their box of tricks to even give.  This is often the case.  And while it's absolutely maddening, we should not spend our time being upset with people who simply just cannot give us what we want.  The answer is to just duly note this discrepancy and move forward appropriately.

#BeSTRONG

#BeYOU